Friday, July 27, 2012

A Hello Kitty Party

I can hardly believe that my sweet little girl turned four this week.  When I think about how quickly these past four years have gone, it brings tears to my eyes.  Now I'll be the first to admit, I did not enjoy the first year and a half of her life.  My little baby girl could be described as clingy, grumpy, fearful and timid.  She was a horrible sleeper and didn't like to go to other people.  I was scared....scared that my kid would be one of those anti-social children that never wanted to be around other people.  I felt trapped as a parent because she was so shy and scared of other people that I had to be with her ALL THE TIME.  It was an exhausting time in my life.  Now those exhausting moments seem like a million miles away when I look at my now confident, sweet, social, and loving little girl.  She has the kindest heart, but is not afraid to stand up for herself when one of her big friends (aka teenagers in our youth group) picks on her.  She's hilarious, smart, and has an imagination out of this world.  I actually LIKE my kid and enjoy spending time with her.  The girl who would once cower when someone would talk to her, now jumps up on stage at our church and enthusiastically sings a VBS song with the other kids.  Bailey is a true joy and one of my greatest blessings from the Lord.  He has made her so special and I praise Him for his sweet design. 

This sweet little girl is a girly girl though, that knows what she wants.  She requested a Hello Kitty party this year.  We actually she originally requested a Chipmunks party and a laptop, but later decided she didn't really want that.  Oh dear.  I loved the Hello Kitty theme.  Adorable and simple.  We had a simple party with some family to celebrate our big four year old.  Here are some pictures from the party.

 Waiting for her guests to arrive.  Posing with Nana!


 "Take a picture with my doggy, Mom!"  Both smiling.  :)


 Hello Kitty favor bags:  Made my yours truly.  Inspired by these.


 Hello Kitty headbands.  Inspired by this sweet party.


 Pictures of Bailey throughout the year.  Wow she has grown so much!


 Cake table


 Watermelon on a stick.  Thanks Pinterest!


 The very delicious cake made by Cose Dolci Bakery




 The girls posing in their headbands.  Cutie pies.



 Four candles takes a lot of breath! 



Messy little brother


 
 Opening presents dressed in one of my old ballet recital dresses.  Ahhh memories.





 Cousins!


 Mom and me


Daddy and the birthday girl playing with toys after everyone had left.  Notice the fake smile. 

Thursday, July 26, 2012

4th of July

I know this is almost a month late, but I've got a lot of blogging to catch up on, so I guess I'll start somewhere.  We were going to go to my grandparents and watch the fireworks from their living room for the 4th of July.  With the heat setting record breaking temps, I didn't really feel like dealing with the usual fare that goes along with the community fireworks.  You know:
  • walking a long way to the local fireworks so we could sweat buckets of sweat 
  • sitting there for hours while we waited for fireworks with cranky tired children
  • my one year old freaking out because of the loud booming noise
  • making the trek back to the car in the same blistering heat. 
Um...no thanks.  :)  The living room fireworks show sounded pretty sweet to me.  My grandma called me a couple of days before with bad news that their town had canceled due to the fire hazard because of the lack of rain.  BUMMER.  Now what to do?

We decided on a fun family day with just the four of us.  We ended up having the best day.

 First up:  Bailey and I made these adorable watermelon and blueberry sparkler wands .  We all loved them!



Bailey especially loved them.  Notice the watermelon drips on her chin.


 
No 4th of July celebration would be complete without some good eats.  My sweet hubby made some delicious baby back ribs on the grill while I made the mashed potatoes, fried zucchini (both from the garden), and deviled eggs.



 After lunch we went to our local 4th of July festival.  Like I said, it was HOT so we didn't stay long but we did stay long enough to enjoy the petting zoo, pig races, pony rides, balloon animals, and inflatables.  Bailey was so proud of herself for riding the pony.  It was her first time and she looked like a pro!


 My big girl.  The first one was much bigger, so I went with her.  We were getting trampled on by 8 year olds.  I was terrified.  For real.  lol


 We were HOT when we got home, so we cooled off with some homemade ice cream.  It was great!




After the sun had gone in a bit, we headed outside for a little slip n slide fun.  The kids had an absolute blast! 
 




 CHEESE!  Happy parents. Hardly any whining all day. 

To end the evening we did our bedtime routine, got the jammies on, and packed the kids and chairs into the stroller to the end of our dead end street.  We waited 5 minutes, saw an amazing fireworks display in the town next to us, and then walked 5 seconds back to our house and went to bed.  How convenient!  It really was a great day!




Thursday, June 28, 2012

What we've been eating: May & June

It's been a LONG time since I've posted so these are by no means what we've eaten in a week's time period.  I've been really bad about taking pictures and keeping up with things.  There's been a lot going on in the Buss household, but enough of the excuses.  Here are a few food dinner pictures that I did manage to snap.  Hope they give you some inspiration.  I always love getting new ideas from people too, so if you've made something particularly yummy lately, let me know in the comments.  :)

 Baked BBQ chicken, buttered carrots and broccoli, and corn.
Fast, easy and something that everyone likes.  I confess the bbq sauce is Sweet Baby Ray's. Not a healthy "real food" option but it tastes good and I didn't have time to make a homemade sauce.  I haven't found a homemade one that I like better than SBRs.  Any suggestions?


 Shrimp stir fry with leftover veggies (red and yellow peppers, asparagus, broccoli and onions) made with coconut oil and coconut aminos instead of soy sauce.


 Salmon with garlic green beans and baked potatoes.  
Another fast meal that both kids like.


Creamy pasta and broccoli.
This was a clean out the fridge night.  See the two kinds of pasta?  lol


 Mexican pinto beans and rice topped with cheese, salsa, and guacamole.  
Very frugal and yummy.


 Bacon, spinach, cheddar ranch quesadillas.  
Took these to potluck one night and they were a hit. Again, still using bottled ranch.  Woops.  I have yet to find a homemade one that still doesn't contain bad ingredients like mayo loaded with soybean oil so right now I'm still using Hidden Valley.  Moderation right?  :)


 Beef and broccoli with rice and peas.
This was a super fast meal because it was made with leftover steak that we had the night before.  I love re-purposing meals.  One leftover filet fed all four of us when added to a lot of broccoli, garlic, and coconut aminos.  Not too shabby.

 Vegetable quinoa.  Yes sometimes we eat meatless meals.  Quinoa has a lot of protein in it so I sometimes make it with meatless dishes.  This was a super fast meal and my 14 month old gobbled it up.  Makes a great lunch too.  I sauted all the veg (carrots, onions, green beans, red peppers) in butter first, added garlic and salt and pepper.  Added 1.5 cups rinsed quinoa and let toast for a few minutes.  Added 3 cups broth and let cook for 12 minutes. 


Kabobs:  Marinated chicken, pineapple, red and orange peppers and onions.  We all enjoyed this meal and ate every bit of it much to my dismay.  I had planned to chop up the leftovers to put in quesadillas with pepper jack cheese.  :(



So there you have it.  A few of the good eats in the Buss household over the past couple of months.  What's been cookin' in your kitchen?

Thursday, May 3, 2012

Our Spring Garden

I LOVE growing my own food.  I never thought I would be the type of girl that would get such pleasure out of digging in the dirt with my family, but I DO!  By the time winter is coming to an end every year, my hubby and I are itching to plan out what our garden will look like that year.  We typically do a spring crop and a summer crop.  We say every year that we are going to try a fall/winter crop but this is year six for our garden and we have yet to do one.  Oh well.  Maybe this year will be our year.  **Not holding my breath**

Normally we just till and plant right in the ground.  Ken spends long hard hours tilling the ground, replenishing the ground with new compost, and then we plant.  We do great until mid summer hits and we go out of town on vacation or camp with the youth group.  When we get back the weeds are OUT.OF.CONTROL and then our garden pretty much goes to pot.  It's a wonder we ever get anything out of it, but our little modest garden has faithfully produced bountiful crops every year despite our neglect.  Bad gardeners!  Whoops!

This year our garden is a little different. We decided to try raised beds.  They are supposed to help slackers like ourselves have low maintenance gardens, and so far we are loving them.  They were easy to build, thanks to my handy dandy hubby.  Really though, I helped put them together and if you can work a saw and screw in some screws, you're good to go.  This year our raised beds are only one board high due to budget, but next year we plan to add another board to make them even higher and better.

Benefits of raised beds
Better drainage
Fewer weeds
Soil control
Keeps out pests
loose dirt without loads of tilling
Easier on the back
Portable
Purty


For our spring crop this year we currently have planted spinach, lettuce, broccoli, collard greens, onions, garlic, and potatoes.  I wanted to do more, but we just didn't get around to it.  See...slackers.

 1st bed:  lettuce, garlic and spinach...and some random scissors that I used to cut the lettuce and spinach.

 2nd bed:  broccoli and collard greens

 3rd bed:  onions and potatoes





 I picked our first bunch of  spinach and lettuce tonight.  Two big bags!  We've been nibbling on it for a couple of weeks here and there but we finally have enough for some sizable salads.  I can't WAIT!  Fresh salads with homemade dressing, topped with some chicken and homemade sourdough croutons...best salad ever.  YUM!




So there it is.  Our Spring garden.  I can't wait to plant for the summer.  We have lots more yummy stuff to grow and will keep you posted.  

Do you have a garden?  What are you growing?

Tuesday, April 3, 2012

Do you know about the Dirty Dozen?

Dirty Dozen...


Kinda sounds like a mafia term or something, doesn't it?  Really it's a phrase coined by the Environmental Working Group to identify the top twelve most heavily pesticide contaminated fruits and vegetables.  It is suggested that you buy these particular fruits and vegetables organic to avoid harmful chemicals that will be in your food.  Fruits and vegetables are said to be essential to a person's health/diet, but some are now saying that it may be more detrimental than healthy if you are consuming such chemical laden produce in mass quantities.

What's all the fuss about pesticides?

Think about it.  Pesticides are sprayed on crops to KILL live organisms or bugs that would eat the plants.  If they kill pests, why would we think they wouldn't have an adverse effect on people? Pesticides have been linked to an array of health concerns such as

  • brain and nervous system toxicity
  • cancer
  • hormone disruption
  • skin, eye and lung irritation
 Truthfully, we probably haven't even begun to do enough research on the ill effects of pesticides in humans, but it makes sense to me that anything toxic can not be good for the body, especially in growing children.


Here's what showed up on the 2011 list as the worst offenders:


The Dirty Dozen (buy these organic)
1.  Apples
2.  Celery
3.  Strawberries
4.  Peaches
5.  Spinach
6.  Nectarines (imported)
7.  Grapes (imported)
8.  Sweet bell peppers
9.  Potatoes
10. Blueberries (domestic)
11. Lettuce
12. Kale/collard greens

They also have what they EWG calls the Clean 15.  It's the fifteen fruits and vegetable lowest in pesticides so it is not essential to buy these organic.

The Clean Fifteen
1.  Onions
2.  Corn (I still buy organic, because most corn is now genetically modified unless organic)
3.  Pineapple
4.  Avocado
5.  Asparagus
6.  Sweet peas
7.  Mangoes
8.  Eggplant
9.  Canteloupe
10.  Kiwi
11.  Cabbage
12.  Watermelon
13.  Sweet Potatoes
14.  Grapefruit
15.  Mushrooms

I find this list helpful because sometimes I don't have it in my budget to buy all my produce organic.  This helps me prioritize or buy more off of the Clean 15 list.  I hope you found this helpful.  Here is the link to a printable list that you can keep in your wallet/purse when you shop so you'll have it handy.  They also have an app that you can download for your Droid or iPhone.  I'm not quite that fancy yet, but most of you are and would probably find that useful.

 

But I can't afford organic

Yeah, my budget is tight too.  Here are some suggestions to help you afford good quality produce.

  • Buy from the Farmer's Market.  I went to my local Farmer's Market the other day, which focuses on local organic food and bought a big bag of broccoli for $1.  That lasted two meals for us.  It doesn't get much cheaper than that.  Buyer beware though, not all food at a farmer's market is organic, local, and inexpensive.  Don't be afraid to ask questions like, "Where is your farm?  Was this grown there?  Is it organic?  Do you spray your crops?"  Some farms can't afford the high price tag of an organic certification, but follow organic gardening practices.
  • Join a food co-op.  This is a great way to get inexpensive quality food.  Azure Standard is a great one for all kinds of food.  The best part is that you do your shopping at home on your computer and it gets delivered.  You just go to the drop point and pick it up. 
  • Consider being part of a CSA.  Community Supported Agriculture.  What this means is that members in the community purchase a "share" directly from a farmer.  In return the consumer receives a box of locally grown in season produce each week.  They are usually fairly inexpensive and a great way to get quality fresh food.  Again, it is important to know your farmer's practices, so please ASK!
  • Grow your own.  This is personally my favorite way to ensure how my food is grown.  Plus it is so rewarding to reap the benefits of your hard work.  This year in our garden we will be growing lettuce, spinach, broccoli, onions, garlic, peppers, tomatoes, potatoes, collard greens, strawberries, blueberries, squash, zucchini, cucumbers, and green beans.  I can hardly wait!
  • Look at the grocery store or bulk discount stores.  This is last on the list since the produce isn't always the freshest, but you can also find organic produce for decent prices at the store.  Sams or Costco often has organic carrots, spinach, celery, salad mixes, etc for pretty cheap.  I often purchase these for juicing, smoothies, and quick snacks.  I've also heard that you can sometimes ask your local grocery store what they do with organic produce that is blemished or is getting ready to go bad.  They will often discount them deeply for you so they don't lose money off of them.  I've never tried this, but I'm looking forward to it. 

All in all, just do the best you can.  Don't make this an idol in your life, but please be aware that what you eat does have an impact on your health.  Organic food isn't just a marketing ploy, although it can be.  It matters how the food was grown and what we put in our bodies.

Monday, April 2, 2012

The skinny on fat

If you're in your late 20s/early 30s like myself, you have grown up with the "wisdom" that fat is bad.  When one looks to start losing weight, one of the first things they do is start "lightening" up their cooking by reducing fat.  Skim milk, fat free yogurt, and low fat cheese may be staples in your house because they are "healthier" options to their full fat counterparts.  Yeah I know that's a lot of air quotes.  :)


Is low fat/fat free really healthy?

This is the question on the table isn't it?  The truth is, your body NEEDS fat to thrive, especially saturated fat.  Yep, you read that right!  I said saturated fats.  We've been duped into thinking that saturated fats are the bad guys and polyunsaturated fats are good.  It's actually quite the opposite.  Saturated fats play a critical role in the body for immune function, cell membrane function, kidney and lung function, as well as aiding in protecting the body against infection.  Also interestingly enough, human breast milk, which is seen as one of the most healthy foods on the earth, is very high in saturated fat AND cholesterol. 

Furthermore, vitamins A, D, E, and K are fat soluble.  You absolutely NEED fat to absorb them into your body, metabolize them, and use them for optimal function.  If you are eating a fat free diet, you are essentially robbing your body of these important nutrients.   These vitamins are also naturally occuring in foods like butter, especially butter that is from grass fed cows.  Who doesn't love butter?  I'll take any excuse to eat more butter.  :) Also fat free and low fat products are not as healthy as they're cracked up to be for another reason.  When natural fat is taken out of a product, for instance yogurt, it's always replaced with something to fill the void.  That filler is usually sugar.  Here is a quote from Michael Pollan's Food Rules on this topic. 

The forty-year-old campaign to create low-fat and nonfat versions of traditional foods has been a failure: We’ve gotten fat on low-fat products. Why? Because removing the fat from foods doesn’t necessarily make them nonfattening. Carbohydrates can also make you fat, and many low- and nonfat foods boost the sugars to make up for the loss of flavor … You’re better off eating the real thing in moderation than bingeing on “lite” food products packed with sugars and salt.

But I don't want to get fat!  Does fat make you fat?

I realize this is anecdotal, but I think there is power in personal testimony, so I'll share mine.  When I first started eating saturated fats and throwing conventional wisdom out the window, I admit I was skeptical.  I had just had my second child, and had packed on a whopping 45 pounds of weight.  The last thing I wanted to do was gain more weight by eating fat.  I threw caution to the wind anyway, and ate the heck out of some butter and coconut oil.  I figured, hey, even if it did make me gain weight, it would give me killer breast milk supply.  Little did I know, eating more fat not only helped my breast milk supply, but the weight began falling off of me.  Coconut oil in itself is a wonder food and excellent in aiding in weight loss.  My baby boy is now a year old and I am the leanest I have ever been in my adult life.  Yes I do attribute some of the weight loss to breast feeding, but I know a large part of it was the increase in healthy fat intake.  I also breastfed my first child for a VERY long time and while I did lose weight, it wasn't as much as when I was consuming large amounts of healthy quality fat.

If that doesn't convince you, Eat Fat Lose Fat, is a convincing case for eating quality saturated fats, especially organic virgin coconut oil.   I tend to follow the logic that God-given fats are going to be healthier than factory made chemical fats.  Call me crazy, but that's how I roll.  :)


There are many other things that have contributed to America getting fat such as processed foods, sedentary lifestyles, stress, lack of sleep, etc.  Fat (healthy ones at least) is a good guy. Don't lump it in with the other unhealthy junk in our society.


What are healthy fats?

  • Butter or ghee:  Like I mentioned above, butter is the source of fat soluble vitamins A, D, E, and K.  Not only is it great for your health, the taste can't be beat.  Look for butter that is organic and made from grass fed cows.  Vitamin K2 is found richly in grass fed butter, but is almost non-existent in butter derived from cows fed on corn and soy.  Ghee is basically clarified butter, where the milk proteins are removed.  Those that are avoiding dairy, can usually tolerate ghee.
  • Coconut oil:  One of my favorite things on the planet for basically EVERYTHING, coconut oil is truly a wonder food.  It is shelf stable, aids in weightloss, has anti-bacterial and anti-fungal properties.  It is also rich in lauric acid, an immune system booster, which is found abundantly in human breast milk.  I use it for a million different things from deodorant to a moisturizer as well as in my cooking.  It's excellent in oatmeal and is a great replacement for shortening.  Please buy some coconut oil today!
  • Animal fats:  lard, beef tallow, chicken/duck/goose fat:  These are the fats that most people have a problem with.  When animals are fed on the pasture and eat primarily grass, their fat is healthy and provides a source of vitamin D.  Animal fats also impart great flavor to food.  Have no fear, enjoy the fat.
  • Palm oil:  I've never used this personally, but it is a naturally occurring source of antioxidants and beta carotene.
  • Olive oil:  Everyone loves olive oil for its flavor and health impact.  It has been touted as a healthy fat and is a monounsaturated fat.  What most people don't know is that it is very heat sensitive and should only be used in very light cooking, as a finisher to sauces, or in cold dressings so as not to destroy the health properties and can cause free radicals.
  • Avocados:  Let's just say yum!  Not an oil but a food that is primarily fat but is very good for you.


What to Avoid

Polyunsaturated fats:  These fats are extremely dangerous but are ironically the ones most doctors recommend.  You know them as corn oil, canola oil, soybean oil, cottonseed oil, peanut oil, and vegetable oil.  They are highly processed and contain high levels of Omega-6.  Our bodies need an equal amount of Omega 3 and Omega 6 in the body for proper function.  The problem is that most people are deficient in Omega 3 and bursting over the top with Omega 6.  Omega 3s are found in fish, nuts and algae.  Not too many people eat high amounts of these foods, which which means that we are extremely heavy on the Omega 6 side.  High amounts of Omega 6 throws our bodies in a tail spin, contributing to a myriad of health problems including but not limited to blood clots, inflammation, high blood pressure, irritation of the digestive tract, depressed immune function, sterility, cell proliferation, cancer and weight gain.

Consider this.  With the introduction of these factory made and "heart healthy" polyunsaturated fats, heart disease, obesity and cancer should have supposedly gone down if these fats were indeed healthy.  In fact, the exact OPPOSITE has happened.  These rates are at an all time high and are climbing.  I think we have to ask ourselves if there could indeed be a coorelation.  I propose yes.

Long story short, avoid these oils. 

Trans fats:  These are NEVER safe and should be avoided at all costs.  They are linked to heart disease, obesity, abdominal fat, diabetes, and cancer.  They are found much processed packaged foods.  Take caution.

In Summary

Eat the fat!  Just kidding...almost.  Take caution when choosing your fats.  If you get this right, you'll be well on your way to better health.  


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Monday, March 5, 2012

Homemade laundry detergent

Homemade laundry detergent is frugal, cleans well, is better for your health, and is FUN to make.  My three year old loves to help me whip up a batch and I love the fact that she is learning the value of homemade items.  If you've never made your own homemade laundry detergent, don't be intimidated.  It's extremely easy and takes less than five minutes.  Also all of the items can be found in just about every supermarket or retail store like Walmart or Target.  Here's a step by step.

Step 1: Grate a bar of soap.  I like Castile soap but any bar soap will work.  I admit, this part is kind of a pain the butt.  This time I used a box grater, but I've used the food processor before and it works well too and is much faster.  But then I have to clean the food processor.  ::Sigh::  So lazy!  :)


 Step 2:  Add 1 cup of Borax.  Simple enough.  You all are smart folks.  There's not much more to this.


 Step 3:  Add 1 cup of Washing Soda.


Step 4:  Mix and place it in an airtight container.  I like these pretty glass jars.  They make laundry time a little more exciting.  Ok, maybe not.  Humor me, ok?  I got mine at Old Time Pottery for $5 I think.

Note:  You may also add 1/2 cup of oxiclean if you would like for more stain fighting power. 

Use 1-2 T per load depending on how soiled the items are. 

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